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Hi there friends! I’ve been wanting to share my KonMari experience with you for a while. My friend suggested I read the best seller a couple of months ago and I immediately got hooked! The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing by Marie Kondo is a decluttering method I’ve never seen before.
In a nutshell, you declutter by category (not by room or closet/drawer). Every item that you own, you literally hold it and ask yourself, “does this spark joy?” In the end, you are surrounded by things you love which totally goes with my slogan, “love your space”. Super. Kondo’s method promises that if you declutter and organize by category all at once (she mentions this could take up to 6 months so take a deep breath!), it will have such an impact on every area of your life, that you will only have to do it once! Sounds awesome, right?
I’m going to take you through my experience of tidying up starting with the master closet. I have to warn you, since we live in Japan, 70% of our belongings (mostly furniture and cold-weather clothes) are in long-term storage. So I’m looking forward to practicing the KonMari method when we move back to the states. With that being said I absolutely love simplifying and organizing things by making sure each item has a home getting rid of things we don’t love, use, or need.
Kon Mari the Closet
Decluttering order for Clothes:
Tops
Bottoms
Clothes that should be hung
Socks
Underwear
Bags
Accessories
Clothes for specific events
Shoes
The first step for the magic of tidying up is to declutter!
Put all your items in a sub-category on the floor. Get rid of anything that doesn’t spark joy! At first, it was difficult to not have dialogues like “does this fit?” “I just wore this last week” “it still looks new” with myself. After a few garments, I finally started getting the hang of it. It was simple, when I picked it up, did it put a smile on my face?
After going through my tops, I quickly went through the other sub-categories. I have to tell you, a few items that I felt apprehensive about and kept, I have gotten rid of since then.
The next step is organizing.
Kondo suggests folding as much as you can. Only hang items that won’t stay folded, outerwear, and dress clothes.
To make the most out of drawer storage. Fold your items so that they sit up vertically in a smooth rectangle. You will find that different clothes need to be folded in a different way.
3 steps for folding:
- Fold each lengthwise side of a garment toward the center.
- Tuck in sleeves and straps so that you have a long rectangle.
- Fold the end up in half then again in half or thirds.
I contemplated showing each of my drawers but I decided that I didn’t want my undergarments published on the web! All of my clothes, including socks and bathing-suits, are folded into neat little rectangles. I LOVE getting into my dresser now. Kondo also suggest going from light to dark in your drawers. The lightest clothes being in the front. Hanging clothes from light to dark should go right to left. Your hanging and folding clothes should also be arranged by type.
I’m happy to say that I now have an empty dresser drawer and that all seasons (in Okinawa that’s only two: hot and not so hot) of my clothes fit in our closet easily.
Since we were only allowed to bring about 30% of our belongings, we had to be very picky on what was coming with us to Japan. I brought only my favorite shoes and accessories but still found out that not all of them sparked joy. I guess I had only thought they were my favorite!
An important step to remember when you are doing the KonMari method is that you look for your items in a specific category everywhere! Your car, purse, and every closet/room in the house needs to be searched. When you are organizing them, keep similar items stored together.
A note on the things you are getting rid of. Marie Kondo says “throw it away!” I decided to try to sell a few high value items and donate the rest. Let me suggest that you GET IT OUT OF YOUR HOUSE ASAP. Otherwise, family members and fond memories might persuade you to keep a thing or two! After I looked at my “get rid of selling/donating pile” for a few days, I finally put in my car and took it to the thrift store. It felt SO GOOD to just get all of it off my hands.
Are you taking this journey with me? I would love to hear about your KonMari method experiences and whether you have found joy! You can also find a copy of The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up right here.
Can you believe I got my kids on board? I will be sharing how we KonMari”ed” their clothes, books, and toys next time. A couple of nights ago my husband said he was ready to declutter and organize his clothes. Be still my heart! Kondo mentioned in her book how the family will go along once they see you sparking joy!
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This is not a sponsored post. I just fell in love with the KonMari method and wanted to share!
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You have no idea how badly i have to do this to every closet in our house again but I just can’t find the time. Too much to do all the time.
Kathy says
Right?!? I told my kids they can pull clothes out but they aren’t allowed to put them away. So far their dressers have stayed neat. (A couple of months now!) I just finished my husband’s clothes today, we’ll see how he does!
Rachael says
I have almost finished the book! We started with our clothes the other day (although I still have shoes and bags to do this weekend), but i’m in love already! I had already done a huge cull before moving to Japan, and then again recently, but still managed to discard about half my clothes! I can’t wait to get to the rest but can see it will take a while. KonMari, where have you been all my life!
Kathy says
Awesome Rachael!! I’m totally addicted. I wish we didn’t have so much in long-term storage but I can’t wait to go through it too.
Suzanne says
My divorce decree doesn’t spark joy but I still think I need to keep it. Lol
Kathy says
That made me laugh out loud!! Papers are tricky. Since we live across seas, my husband thinks we need multiple copies of everything! I told him they don’t spark joy but at least I have room to keep them organized since I “KonMari” everything else. lol
Sarah says
Great tips, Kathryn! I’m always leery about these organizational “methods”, but this one actually seems simple and useful. Thanks!
Kim @ The Putney Cleaner says
I’ve read this book and it’s very useful but I want to add that iImixed some the ways for organizing and de-cluttering mentioned in the book with 12-12-12 challenge. For one week you need to decide which 12 item to throw way, 12 to give a new place at your home and 12 to donate. Even my kids helped me with this project.
Kathy says
That’s a great tip Kim! I know it can feel overwhelming to do everything at once for some. 🙂